Category: Family

  • Meeting Jesus at the dinner table

    Meeting Jesus at the dinner table

    Earlier this year, I had the privilege of writing for The Word One to One about our family’s story of using a tool for evangelism as a family devotional.

    During a conversation with an old friend, he asked me what we were doing as a family for our devotions together. I had to confess to him that we weren’t doing anything at the time. Even though I had spent years training in Word ministry, I had neglected the wonderful task of taking my children through God’s word.

    A simple plan for family devotions

    Convicted of this, I knew that I needed to do something. What made it tricky is that my wife and I are both in full-time ministry. We’re a busy family of six. There’s only so much time, on top of all the other responsibilities, that can be spent putting together a Bible study that can speak to an 8-year-old, 15-year-old, and any age in-between.

    I decided to take the family through The Word One to One because I had used it in group settings before. I knew the commentary and questions were helpful and accessible. I also knew that it was written with the conviction that God’s word really is God’s word.

    Our plan was simple: after dinner, everyone grab a Bible and we’ll work through an episode together. So while the dishes were still on the table, we opened up John’s Gospel and I led us through each episode.

    Persevering with family devotions

    The experience of taking a family through a Bible book is a bit of a mixed bag. There were evenings when it was easy and everyone understood what John was saying. There were difficult evenings where everyone was frustrated or tired because our conversation got derailed, or we got stuck on tricky passages. Then there were evenings where everyone understood but the weight of the message of Jesus moved the children to tears.

    But we persevered by God’s grace and persevering paid off. We made it all the way through John’s Gospel last year and finished Acts as a family earlier this year. Our children now have an understanding of the book that they wouldn’t have had otherwise. They can remember John’s message and understand it when someone references it in a sermon.

    Most importantly, though, they responded to John’s message. John wrote this book so that his readers would believe that Jesus is the Son of God and that they would have life in his name. And that’s what happened to my children. They believed and then were baptised in May 2025.

    The fruit of family devotions

    Family devotions are hard but they’re worth it. Those tear-filled evenings were not easy, but they were tears that fell over trying to understand who Jesus is and what he said. The Word One to One is a great option if you’re unsure what to do for family devotions because it puts the Bible in front of young eyes. It allows God’s word to do the work. It stretches parents as they try to answer questions that might not be addressed by the notes. It helped my wife and me to clearly present the gospel to my children. It helped us all to learn together and to be reminded of just how good the gospel is.

    I didn’t know that God would use these devotions to save my children but I am so grateful that I had this opportunity to set them on the path that leads to Jesus.

  • the way that seasons change

    the way that seasons change

    I’ve been keeping this blog in one form or another for a number of years now. For a long time, the purpose was to keep mission partners updated as we went about our days as missionaries here in the UK.

    Many of you have followed us while we raised support, while we settled into life in Liverpool, as we found ourselves suddenly living and serving in Warsaw, and then moving to Scotland during the pandemic. We started this journey in 2017 before moving away from the States in 2018. So much has happened and changed in the time since then.

    This month, my family visa renewal was successful, which is the first step in ensuring that we will be able to continue in ministry here at Ardgowan Square. Tracy’s role with AT3 has shifted again, with her now the acting Director of Internships while Naomi, the normal director, is on maternity leave. Life and ministry have gotten very busy, but it is good.

    As I try and assess what the future looks like and what things to keep up with, one thing that seems to keep getting pushed further and further to the periphery is this blog and newsletter. It is not that I do not still enjoy writing updates about how we are getting on with things in the church or at home or with AT3, but it is simply that there is only so much time to write.

    Over the past few weeks, I have begun writing regularly over at Substack. My plan is to keep doing so because I am making writerly friends there.

    And so this is the last email newsletter that will come from my own personal blog. When you next hear from me, it will be the next post in a series I am writing on 2 Timothy. If you’d rather not receive those emails, please feel free to unsubscribe. You’ve been following along with my writing for a long time now. Thank you for sticking with us for so long, for your prayers, and your financial support of our mission in the past.

    In the mean time, see you on Substack.

  • Ministry & Family Update – November 2024

    Ministry & Family Update – November 2024

    As I write this, I have just finished writing out my sermon for Sunday. It’s been a week of preparing for Advent, battling a cold, and spending two days up to my elbows in Minor Prophets.

    Family

    This isn’t a wedding photo but one from a session we did for fun with our old friend Sabrina a few years later
    This isn’t a wedding photo but one from a session we did for fun with our old friend Sabrina a few years later

    November has been quite a busy month for us both at home and in ministry. On the 7th, Tracy and I celebrated 16 years of marriage. We both had to work that day so we spent the previous day in Glasgow together hopping around cafes. It’s hard to describe what it feels like to have been married for 16 years because it is both a long time and not very long at all. I cannot imagine life any other way and I barely recognise memories from before we were married. What I am sure of is the fact that I am so grateful for Tracy. Life would be so much less were it not for her.

    In other family news, both Chloe and Liam took part in their school’s annual pantomime, Chloe in the chorus and Liam as a part of the band! Both of them have come to love performing and it’s such a joy to see them flourish like this.

    Ministry

    At church, we have finished up our sermon series in 1 Peter. I am hoping to compile my notes on the whole book alongside my sermon outlines in order to make them available to whoever might find them useful. 1 Peter has been a consistent source of encouragement and challenge over the last few months as I read and re-read the letter. If you’ve never tried out immersive rereading, I highly recommend it.

    Looking ahead to December, we are holding our annual Blue Christmas service on the 8th, a Christmas Eve carol service, and a short service on Christmas Day.

    During our Lord’s Day gatherings, we will be looking at Luke 1. I’ve titled the sermon series “the nativity of st. luke” even though we won’t get Jesus’ birth until Christmas day in order to remind us that this is a season of waiting. We wait for God to move in our lives, in the world, and ultimately to return in Christ at the Second Advent.

    Prayer requests

    As always, we covet your prayers over these things, believing that God works through the prayers of his people:

    Blue Christmas

    While this is normally a service simply for those in our congregation who are struggling, it is always hoped that we will attract those from the community. Pray for me as I prepare to teach and the team as they prepare to serve in childcare and with catering.

    Christmas Carols @ Cappielow

    I’ve been invited to speak at a community carol service which will take place at Greenock’s local ⚽️ stadium. This is exciting and a bit intimidating, but I’m looking forward to the opportunity to preach the gospel. Again, pray for me as I prepare to preach.

    Tracy & AT3

    Tracy continues to be very busy with AT3. While her role has shifted to focusing on mobilisation for the whole organisation, she is still working quite closely on the summer internship. Right now they are in the midst of interviewing candidates for the 2025 internship, which is taking up quite a lot of her time. Be praying that the whole team would have a good sense of who to welcome onto the program and also that the internship itself would be a great success with students from American universities spending the summer at UK churches to get a taste of ministry in a post-Christian context.

  • Ministry & Family Update – October 2024

    Ministry & Family Update – October 2024

    Autumn has arrived, the clocks have moved back (at least for the UK), and we are well into our teaching program for this term.

    Preaching through 1 Peter with the team has been an incredibly rewarding experience. We’ve been able to open up these amazing truths not just for the adult congregation but also for the children who are among us each week. As I write this, I’m in the midst of preparing for the final third of this book (chapters 4-5). We’ve seen how elect exiles are to live all of life for God’s glory and we’ll soon see how they will endure suffering for God’s glory.

    It’s noteworthy that Peter doesn’t actually describe the prior sinful ways of his people until he gets to chapter 4:1-11. He spend so much of the letter focusing on their new identity so that when he shows the way they used to live, the futile ways inherited from their forefathers, they are shown for what they are. Futile, even in the face of suffering for doing right, when compared with the wonder of what Jesus has made them by his saving work.

    Ministry

    The month began with a trip to Edinburgh to attend the Evangelism Conference put on by A Passion For Life. Dave Jensen presented a real, practical approach to evangelism that helped join up a lot of things. The biggest, and most encouraging thing for me was the emphasis on the evangelistic power of the local church gathering each week. The local church is the place where people can hear the Word, see God’s people together, spend time with God’s people, and be prayed for by God’s people.

    My time at the conference and subsequently reading The Soul-Winning Church has really pushed my prayer-life forward as I think about what things I need to be praying for regarding our small church.

    We’ve also had the joy of some new people starting to come along. They’re relatively new to the area but it’s been great to have them with us for the last few weeks.

    New gospel workers in the west of Scotland

    As a former AT3 apprentice, the first to work in the west of Scotland, I have had a particular burden for seeing more people come to this area to work.

    In the last couple of months, a new AT3 family has arrived from the States to train at a church that we have some ties to. It was so good to be able to meet up with Caleb and Rachel Sides and their children for lunch a week or two ago. They’re being very well-taken care of by their church and I’m looking forward to seeing Caleb from time to time at conferences in Glasgow.

    Prayer requests

    As always, we have some things to keep in prayer.

    • I have begun planning for Advent and the new year teaching plan. Over the next couple of weeks, I need to confirm events like Blue Christmas and our Christmas Eve carol service. These are all great opportunities to preach the gospel and our church building was absolutely jam-packed for our carol service last year. Pray that the planning would go well and that the church would be on board with bringing as many people as they can to the events.
    • Tracy is busy with AT3 work. Not only is she handling things like their mobilisation processes and helping with the summer internship process, but she is also involved with coaching apprentices. Pray for Tracy as she undertakes all of this work, that she would serve as one who serves by the strength that God supplies.
    • We are also looking ahead and praying about the future for our family. Our hope, and the church’s hope, is that we will be able to stay here to continue working but we need some things in place for that:
      • My next visa application is due in February. It is a big, expensive application. We’re confident that it will be successful and we are so thankful that a significant portion of the cost is being covered by a private donor. If you’d like to contribute to the cost, do get in touch with me via email.
      • Continued funding for my role. For the first three years, my position is funded by a collaboration between the church and two other trusts. Looking beyond those three years, we will need to source extra funding in order to cover the gap that will be lost. This is a big project that is being undertaken by the elders and myself. Pray that God would provide what is necessary for us to continue ministering in this place.